When you’re going after a 9 or a 10, confidence is the key to getting that hot woman interested in you, and keeps her attracted to you for a long time. From the bars to the clubs to every potential site for picking up hot women there are some things that remain constant. Women respond well to confidence and honesty, and will generally respond negatively to overzealous amorous advances and cheesy one liners. Read More...

“I am going to try these on.”

So it starts. The next 20-30 minutes of my life will be wrought with peril. I know what is coming next. The most dangerous question a woman can ask a man. The probe that launched a thousand arguments; the humbling experience known as the “How Do I Look In [This Garment]?”

If you have been in a relationship longer than a couple of days, you have more than likely been taken (read: dragged against your will) shopping for clothes. Why women think this is a good idea is beyond me. I have NEVER ever ended a clothes-shopping trip happier than when I started. It’s a trap that only occasionally has a pyrrhic victory.

But not all shopping is created equal. There are two things men don’t consider “shopping” and will gladly tag along without protest: shopping for lingerie (ever wonder why you can never find your Victoria’s Secret catalog the day after it comes in the mail?) and electronics.

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Are you into gender equality? If so, you'll appreciate Marc Rudov's call to boycott the "love holiday".

Marc Rudov, author, relationship coach, speaker, and radio/TV personality, announced today his fifth annual boycott of Valentine’s Day, which he calls "Nomance Day."

Rudov, globally known for promoting equality between men and women, opined: "There’s nothing romantic about coercing men to oblige female entitlement. Valentine’s Day artificially and unilaterally caters to women. Read More...

As a man matures and has a family, a change happens within him. There is this growing desire and need to have a special place where he can go and be himself. Enter The Man Cave (or Mantuary). The Man Cave is a sanctuary, usually untouched by female influence or decorum, where a man can do manly things and have manly stuff, without upsetting the feng shui  of female-designed living areas or child-inhabited spaces.

The design of the Man Cave can be simple: a large TV, a computer, a fridge, an old couch and some milk crates. However, as the DIY Network’s Man Caves show has shown us, they can be sophisticated and fully decked out with poker and pool tables, wet bars, music equipment and sports memorabilia.

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I am the only man currently contributing to this blog, so I believe I have a moral obligation to help ladies reading this blog better understand the creatures on the other side of the gender aisle. This post will talk about one of the basic tenets in keeping a man happy and onboard with your relationship.

Ever notice the correlation between his stomach’s fullness and his mood? Well, as a wise Mayan once paraphrased for me, “a hungry man is an angry man.”

A man’s mood is tied to two places on his body. I am sure you can figure out one of them. The other is his stomach. There is no greater driving force.

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